Sloppines, inc. Being human is a messy endeavor, justified only by persistence, by the courage to face yourself as you really are; getting up again is a mundane act most days, on a few it's valorous.
Words help. Words offer comfort -- a friend more than a vocabulary — and intimate space to share, in public or private though transparent always to God. God's ears hear everything. (Who is this God who in visible stillness listens?)